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May 11th, 2007
As you may be aware I am a professional Coach and Trainer. Over the past 10 years I have worked with many individuals, around the world, to help them in their Personal Goal Setting. Just like you they wanted something different out of life and they wanted to achieve!
You have your own dreams and aspirations don’t you? I don’t know you yet. But I do know that you are here because you feel that there is something out there for you! You want something different…something better out of life? You may not even be sure what it is yet?
Over the past few weeks I have been putting together a Personal Goal Setting package which has just launched.
This package is something I am really pleased about because it is exactly what I enjoy working with people on. Take a look at it at Personal Goal Setting
I know you will appreciate the value and the potential that this has for you.
March 18th, 2007
I am pleased to be able to announce that we have relaunched PK eBooks - Your eBook Store during the last 10 days with a completely new look and a fresh stock of reasonably priced Information Products.
Our aim at Pk eBooks is to provide you with information which will help you at home and with your family and hobbies. We provide quality information on a range of subjects but always at affordable prices.
One of the reasons I first started to look at providing information over the internet was because I found it so frustrating trying to find the information I needed. Since then we have developed a wide range of sites and PK eBooks is one the latest to be updated. I hope that you will find information there to help you at home and with your family and hobby or indeed hobbies. Here’s a few samples of what you can find:
Home Improvement Tips & Money Savers!
Interior Design on a Budget – How to Tips and Tricks
How to become a Scrapbooker
The Beginner’s Guide to Stamp Collecting!
Help Your Child Reach their Maximum Potential
The Beginner’s Guide to Coin Collecting!
The Beginner’s Guide to Woodworking!
The Dog Owner’s Handbook
The Ultimate How to Photography Guide!
How to Learn Magic and Become a Successful Magician for Fun or Profit!
Hope you enjoy them! Oh and don’t forget to collect a copy of Identity Theft Prevention for Free - just scroll down to the bottom of the first page of Pk eBooks
October 28th, 2006
In the midst of technological advancement nowadays, the “back-to-basics” rule still applies when it comes to getting hired for a job. It does not matter if you are planning to apply for a million-dollar company or a small, independent firm. When you face an interviewer, it all boils down to how you present yourself. This is the deciding factor whether you will get hired or not.
So you have distributed your resume to prospective employers and you have determined the correct job to apply for. The next step is to schedule the job interview.
You can make the acquaintance of the assistant or the receptionist when you schedule for the interview, either by phone or personally. Be friendly and polite, as these people might provide information that can be essential to getting that job or, even just give you a background of the company or your prospective boss.
Finally, you show up for the interview.
The basic traits of being prompt, how you speak and carry yourself and even how you dress are all factors that contribute in making a lasting impression that will eventually get you hired.
Here are 7 easy steps on how you can improve your interviewing skills:
1.) Prepare for the interview.
First, dress appropriately. Once the interviewer walks into the room, or once you walk into the room to be interviewed, your appearance will be the first thing to make the impact. Dress appropriately, check your grooming and mind your posture.
Second, practice basic courtesy. Know where the interview will be held and be there with ample time to prepare yourself before the scheduled interview. Turn your phone off to avoid unnecessary distractions.
2.) Research.
Use all your resources to make sure that you know the basics about the company. You would not want to be caught unprepared when asked about how you heard or what you know about the company that you are applying for.
Learn about your potential employer. In your mind, develop a clear picture of the company profile.
Make sure that you prepared answers to a few basic questions, but do not sound scripted. This happens when you rehearse what you will be saying word for word. It is enough that you have an overview of what you will impart to the interviewer, and it is better to be spontaneous.
3.) Be cool.
Step forward so that you are now seated and the interview is about to begin. Make a great first impression by maintaining eye contact, giving the interviewer a firm handshake, a friendly smile and a polite greeting. Sit only when you are asked to do so and do not forget to thank the interviewer for taking time off of his or her busy schedule to interview you.
Make sure to start on a positive note and set the proper expectations.
4.) Do not sell yourself short.
In the course of the interview, answer the questions briefly and accurately. The key is to be honest.
Make sure that as a prospective employee, you impart to your future employer what you really are and what you can do for the company, not the other way around. Stay positive and do not give a bad impression about your previous employer.
If you are applying for your first job, do not let your lack of experience hinder you from gaining the advantage against more experienced applicants. What you lack in experience, make up for in confidence and eagerness to learn.
You may also put yourself in the employer’s shoes. Ask yourself, if I were on the other side of this desk, what qualities should I look for in a potential employee? Would I profit if he works for me and can he contribute to the development of the company?
Do not be afraid to sell yourself but do not be overconfident. Just project an air that you are sure of yourself and your capabilities.
5.) Ask questions.
Should you encounter a difficult interviewer, do not be intimidated. One who does not let you put in a word edgewise should be lightly reminded that you should do most of the talking since he is the one who needs to learn more about you.
6.) Wrap it up.
As you near the end of the interview, make sure that all bases are covered. Now is not the time to discuss or even ask about the salary and the benefits that you will receive once employed. There is ample time for that once you do get the position and you are discussing the job offer.
Wrap things up by summarizing your strengths and pointing out your positive traits. Finally, as you end the interview, make sure to thank the interviewer again for his or her time, thus leaving a lasting impression.
7.) Follow up.
Send that all-important thank you note after the interview. Thank the interviewer for the time that he took with you and for giving you that opportunity. Make sure that you know who to contact for follow-up of the results.
A lot of research has been made about the interviewing process. Here is a brief run-through:
First, you make a schedule for the interview.
Then, you are there in the office and you are seen by the interviewee.
The interview itself then transpires.
Next is the closing, then you follow-up with a thank-you-note.
You eventually get accepted and you discuss, negotiate for and sign-up the job offer.
You may notice that the interviewing takes up a great deal of the getting-hired process, so you might as well polish up your interviewing skills on your way to getting that dream job.
October 13th, 2006
It’s tough being a teenager. You’re faced with an ever-changing body, peer pressure and the perils of the opposite sex. How in the world is a person supposed to feel confident? As a parent, it can be difficult to watch your child go through the struggles of adolescence. While you can’t always protect your teen, staying involved and keeping a few points in mind can help you both make it to graduation unscathed.
Teenagers who do well in school tend to feel more confident. Keep on top of your teen’s homework. Set aside a time and place for completing assignments every night. If your teen has difficulties or needs help working to her potential, look into tutoring programs or learning centers. She may fight it, but she’ll appreciate the boost in the long run.
Being involved in extracurricular activities is a surefire way to build self-confidence. While specific possibilities vary from school to school, there’s a little something for everyone. The musically-inclined will want to try out marching band or choir while your family’s Trivial Pursuit champion may want to join the quiz bowl team. Clubs and teams give teens an instant peer group, allow them to experience the satisfaction of working with others towards a goal, and often help them develop leadership skills. Every aspect of the experience lends itself to increased confidence.
If your teen isn’t interested in any of the clubs or sports offered at school, look for activities in the community. Weekly dance classes, riding lessons or martial arts training will help your teen gain confidence as he learns perseverance, dedication and hard work, skills that will stay with him long after the specifics of technique are lost.
Volunteering is another extracurricular option. Some high school clubs, such as National Honor Society and Key Club, focus on community service, but it’s also possible to approach an organization like the humane society or a senior center and ask if they need any help. Encourage your teen to find an organization or cause she is truly interested in, but don’t force it. Compulsory volunteering is no longer truly volunteering. It becomes a chore and many of the “feel good” benefits can be diminished.
Relationships are key to self-confidence during the teen years. While we often think of romantic relationships as causing the most difficulty, relationships with friends can be just as perilous. Make sure that your teen is developing positive friendships. Ask to meet his friends and his friends’ parents. If you feel that your teen is heading in the wrong direction, steer him towards more positive activities and acquaintances. Make sure that your teen is choosing friends for the right reasons - because they enjoy each other’s company or have shared interests, not because someone is “cool” or “popular.”
Popularity is the magic word during the teen years. Not feeling popular can make even the most secure teens start to doubt themselves. If you feel like your teen is having trouble fitting in, have an honest talk with her about how she views herself and what she wants out of friends, school and life. Emphasize all of her great qualities and let her know that she doesn’t have to be the homecoming queen to be an amazing person. If your child seems to be having trouble making friends, help her become involved in a new activity that will introduce her to other young people.
As much as teens wouldn’t want to admit it, family relationships are also important to their lives. Strong parental relationships are key to helping teens weather the peer pressure, stress and other problems of adolescence. Teens are notorious for not wanting to tell their parents anything. If you ask how school was today, you’ll get a shrug and a mumbled answer. It’s easy to give up in the face of this reticence, but do everything you can to keep the lines of communication open. Teens can feel confident in even the most difficult decisions if they know they will find support at home.
Just because the teen years have hit, all is not lost. With a solid foundation at home and a bit of parental encouragement teenagers can make the most of this exciting yet trying time with their confidence intact.
September 24th, 2006
I’m sure you’ve all heard stories of the way that people can change when they go online. The otherwise good teenager starts to engage in cyber bullying or the otherwise faithful husband gets into some heated chats with fantasy ladies. The changes that a person experiences when they go online don’t have to be negative, though.
Some people simply feel more comfortable when communicating through writing rather than speaking. Sometimes they’re shy or easily embarrassed. Sometimes they just prefer the chance to compose their thoughts before exposing them to the world. In other cases, a speech impediment or some other personal issue gets in the way of clearly community when speaking. In all of these examples, writing e-mails, sending instant messages and posting in forums gives them a chance to be a part of the conversations they may excuse themselves from in person.
Chatting and sending instant messages can be a good way to become more comfortable with friends and acquaintances. You can start with small talk and build up to more substantial conversations when you’ve gained confidence, or you can keep it light and talk about your shared love of heavy metal or Chihuahuas.
Forums and e-mail lists are another way to build self confidence by cultivating groups of friends who share common interests and tastes. You’ll naturally have something to talk about, removing one of the nagging doubts that can cause a lack of self confidence in the real world. You can also build confidence by seeing yourself as an expert in a subject when others come to you for advice.
It’s possible for computer users to discover skills they never knew they had when they journey into the online world. Some people are known for their talent with web design or graphics while others show amazing skill in playing multi-player online games. Making everyone’s favorite forum avatars isn’t necessarily a skill that will be rewarded at school or work, but it can lead to feelings of self-confidence nonetheless. In the case of transferable skills like web design, they may eventually lead to even more positive results like finding a new job that capitalizes on these interests.
Friendships, and even romances, that start online frequently carry over into the real world. Some feel that you get to know the “real person” by meeting someone online first without being swayed by matters of appearance. A shy man who feels tongue-tied whenever he comes face to face with a pretty woman can be more confident talking to that woman through e-mail. As his confidence builds, he can eventually work up to meeting that woman in person. If that particular relationship doesn’t work out, then he can use this newfound confidence to find his next potential female companion.
Now turning to the internet to build self-confidence isn’t healthy if you simply use it as an excuse to retreat from your normal everyday life. It can be much too easy to hide behind a persona you create online. It won’t do you any good if you’re only able to relate to others when you’re acting as “Sheila, Mistress of the Dark” in a chat room. The idea of hiding behind a persona has one positive aspect, though. You can potentially gain self-confidence online by practicing skills that will carry over into the real world. Try on the role of someone who is confident, and eventually you may find yourself no longer pretending.
It’s important not to take things too far, though. Unfortunately, some people view the internet as a free-for-all, where it doesn’t matter what they do and who they harm in the process. Someone who would never start an argument at work will engage in a bitter flame war on a message board. The temporary confidence that may come from doing something daring will eventually turn into feelings of self-loathing if you engage in activities that go against your morals or beliefs.
While there are possible drawbacks, if you’re feeling uncomfortable in face-to-face social situations, try going online. You have the potential to gain valuable communication skills and a confidence that will follow you into the real world.
August 13th, 2006
It takes self-control in order to reach your goals. You increase it the same way you beef up your self-confidence, by mastering smaller steps one at a time, and building up trust in yourself.
Step One: Making the Commitment
You’ll find your goals are easier to reach once you can focus on them in your mind. What exactly do you want to do? What - exactly - are the steps needed to take you there?
It’s easy to say you want to live a healthier life, but you won’t accomplish anything by trying to cover everything at once. Look at your current abilities, and what you’re able to tackle right now. Using your strengths, how can reach your overall goal? Eating more Vegetables? Cutting down on smoking? Exercising with friends?
Pin down your goal and focus your efforts on taking manageable steps in that direction.
Step Two: Put it in Writing
Making a commitment is a lot like making a map. It’s easier to follow your decisions when you’ve laid them down on paper.
When you can see your plan, when you have a chance to check items off one by one, you feel powerful and in control of your situation. Writing things down strengthens you focus, and gives you a reminder of what you have to work on.
Step Three: Kick into Action
Start once you make your commitment. If you wait for the next day, or the next week, or after the holidays, etc you will keep coming up with reasons to avoid starting at all. Worse, you’ll find reasons to stop midstream.
If you find yourself tempted, it may be a sign that your baby steps aren’t small enough. “Never drinking soda pop ever again” may work for someone who drinks a very small amount, but for someone who lives on carbonation, it’s not realistic.
Remember, self-confident people honor their abilities and know their limitations. They don’t set themselves up for fairly. Be good to your spirit by setting goals that won’t drag you off-course.
Step Four: Let the Daydreams Begin
Motivation fuels your efforts. Daydreams fuel your motivation.
Take some time today to imagine your success. See yourself drinking bottled water, or chewing on gum instead of taking a drag. Envision your thinner thighs or sparkling white teeth. Most importantly, see yourself smiling.
While visualizing the life you want to lead is a powerful tool in creating the self-confidence, you can also use visualization techniques to fight off negative thinking.
The next time stresses come to call, close your eyes for a moment and breathe deeply. Imagine yourself walking into a blooming garden. Stop in front of a rose bush, littered with vibrant blooms and wilting ones. Put on your garden gloves, and pick up your shears, then stop to smell the roses. With every sniff of a vibrant bloom, here the whispering positive messages in your mind. “You can do this.” “You will reach your goals.” “You deserve your success.”
The wilted blooms have an acrid smell, and whisper negative comments. Snip them off the bush before they have their whole say, but them in your basket and once back in your office, throw them away.
Step Five: Celebrate Your Success
However little they may be, make a display when your plans reach fruition. It takes focus, commitment, and effort to make even the smallest baby step turn out. Take a moment to feel proud of yourself and realize that improving your life isn’t so tough.
You may even want to reward yourself when you reach certain milestones, but be careful. You want to make progress for yourself, not for the latest CD or a new watch.
Sticking to your goals isn’t so much about willpower as it is making your choices realistic, and aligning your actions with your overall purpose. Be forgiving, hopefully, and celebrate your successes. Soon you’ll be living the life that you want, and you’ll have the trust that you need to meet future obstacles head on.
July 9th, 2006
We all have them - friends who drain our self-confidence. Maybe we’ve been friends for years, or attend the same church or sports club. Maybe we work together and severing ties could hurt us on the job. Then again, maybe we’re ignoring a real problem and using them as a scapegoat.
What is a Good Friend?
When speaking of self-confidence, a good friend is someone who helps you maintain a positive, realistic expectation that you can live a good life. This person is supportive, loyal and Active when you need them.
Let’s take a look at Jill and Jean. They met several years ago through their children, and have stayed loosely in touch ever since. After Jill’s family moved, she came back to visit a few times, and invited Jean to her home. They always support each other, they give advice when they think it’s needed, and see one another two or three times a year. These are healthy friends.
What is a bad friend?
Bad friends can be people we see everyday who we believe are supportive, loyal and caring. A closer look at their actions, and our responses, tells a different story.
Chris and Lilly talk together on a daily basis. They became friends after coaching soccer together. Chris also teaches at Lilly’s son’s school. After she drops her son off in the morning she stops in at Chris’s room, then goes to the office and gossips with the secretaries. Too often she shares Chris’ personal business and it’s raising eyebrows on the job.
Unless someone tells Chris what’s going on, he’s probably not going to find out. He may go on believing Lilly is a friend until it causes a significant problem. She seems supportive, and always willing to listen to his problems. In fact, she encourages him to talk about them.
Actions Speak Louder
Going back to Jill and Jean, when they get together they talk about their families and fun things they are doing with them. They talk about hobbies and latest news on interests they enjoy. They also make an effort to see one another, and to extend an invitation. Their relationship is give and take.
Chris and Lilly, on the other hand, have a very one-sided relationship. Chris talks, and Lilly listens. If he encouraged her to take a bigger part in discussions, he would soon hear her views on many different people and their lives. That would be one clue to her true intentions.
Chris isn’t being a great friend either. He hasn’t extended her the same kind of support or encouragement. She might tell him it’s okay that they always talk about him, but unbalanced friendships create resentment and backstabbing.
Cleaning House
Sometimes you reach a point where you have to look at your friendships, and decide who stays, who goes, and when you’re willing to work it out. If you are trying to become more self-confident, seek out the friends who are fun, make you feel good, and keep you involved.
Just like any other area of life, you can take baby steps to improve your relationships with other people. Just be realistic. Someone who uses you as a drinking buddy, or a drug connection, isn’t a true friend. If you can’t move on to healthier activities, you may be a component of an unhealthy addiction.
Likewise, many friends won’t have time for discussions once your life begins to turn around. Friends who can only lend an ear during troubled times might be using you to make themselves feel better. They definitely won’t help you in setting attainable goals, or in praising your efforts.
Being a Good Friend
Adults and kids take pride in being good friends to others. Be supportive of their dreams and decisions, recognize their individual needs when giving advice, and be positive about effort even when their efforts fail.
By being a good friend, you inspire the same in return. You also know what it takes to be a positive factor in someone’s life, and have a more realistic attitude when considering whether you can fix a “bad” friendship or not.
June 29th, 2006
Life Coaching Online
Being unemployed can certainly be a blow to your self-confidence. That doesn’t mean these feelings should get in the way of a successful job search.
The first step to feeling confident about your job search is to let go of any lingering bad thoughts from the past. If you left your last position under unfavorable circumstances, don’t let this get you down. You should certainly look to your past mistakes to avoid repeating them, but if you truly want to change, it’s possible. You’ll never find your next new job if you let a former unpleasant experience influence your view of yourself, though.
If you feel like you have lingering problems that will get in the way of successfully finding a job, consider visiting a job counselor, career center or job bank. You’ll find professionals who can give you an honest assessment of your skills and abilities. They can set you on the right track to improvement and confidence.
As you set out on your job search, consider taking a class or learning a new skill for a boost of confidence. Now, just learning something new is enough to make you feel intelligent and vital, but it’s even better if your new endeavor is relevant to the field in which you would like to work. That’s not to discount the personal growth that can come from simply becoming more educated, but the benefits are more obvious if you can take Japanese language classes and then find a job with a tech firm with offices in Japan. You’ll feel more confident, and you’ll also create another selling point for yourself as a potential employee.
Your resume is the first step to creating a confident image as it’s the first impression potential employers have of you. You have to have faith in your past education, experiences and accomplishments. While you must always be truthful in a resume, this is not the time to be modest. Bragging about yourself requires a certain about of confidence, but it’s essential to getting the job. Employers want to see specific results, like “increased sales 75%,” from your past positions. Your word choice is important when constructing your resume as small doubts can come to light as lackluster wording and passive verbs.
You also must be careful with your word choice in the cover letter. Self-confidence is essential in selecting the right words to create your best image. Don’t say that you “would like to be a part of [the company]” when you can say that you “are the perfect person for the job” because of your relevant experience. Avoid words that hedge, like think, seem and appear. Companies don’t want to hire someone who “thinks” he’s perfect for the job, they want the candidate who is perfect.
Of course, confidence is also the most valuable asset you can bring to an interview. One concrete thing you can do to increase your confidence before an interview is to prepare. If you’re in college, try to set up a mock interview through your career center, and if you’re already in the workforce, see if you can convince a friend with hiring experience to help you practice fielding questions. At the very least, find or create a list of common interview questions and think of potential answers and relevant examples from your experience.
Once you arrive at your interview confident in your preparation, make sure your body language shows it. Don’t slouch or fidget, and make eye contact with your interviewers. Draw confidence from every little nod and sign of encouragement. If you find yourself giving the interviewers a mediocre answer or not having much to say in response to a question, don’t let it ruin the rest of the interview. Keep moving forward and do you best to make them forget your less-than-perfect answer.
If you don’t get the job you interviewed for, don’t let it stop you from jumping right back into the job hunt. There are other jobs to be had, and your ideal position could be just around the corner. Look back on the positive aspects of the interview and the questions you thought you handled particularly well, and draw on them for confidence in the future.
Whether you’re looking for your first job straight out of college or your fifteenth job, you’ll enjoy better job search results if you can approach the search with confidence.
Life Coaching Online
June 19th, 2006
Life Coaching Online
Self-help cannot cure all ills. Many disorders take a medical doctor’s help to cure. Depression can be a serious problem and one that you don’t need to be suicidal to discover. If you feel frozen to act, or as if nothing you do has any results, you may be depressed.
Battling General Depression
Everyone faces depression from time to time. The Blues. Melancholy. That feeling that you’re sad to day and, for whatever reason, it feels good.
The great outdoors is a cure-all for a host of problems, and general depression can be one of them. If you feel down and out, get outdoors. Even if you are just breathing deeply and walking around the block, the exposure to the air, the sun, and the people will be good for your soul.
Exercise plays an important role in keeping your spirits up. Not only does it get you off the couch (and away from those dour made for TV movies) but it increases circulation and gets more oxygen into your blood. Hormones are released that help you feel good, and provide your brain with a natural anti-depressant.
Drinking water and eating fresh fruits may not have an immediate impact, but doing something good for your health will improve your feelings about yourself. The same goes for your appearance. Shaving, styling your hair, wearing a clean shirt and brushing your teeth - forcing yourself to care just for you for a change - reminds you that you’re worth putting a little time into.
Add to that, hanging out with friends or watching a good comedy can make you laugh and raise your spirits almost instantly. It’s hard to focus on the negative when there’s a smile plastered on your face … then again, some people are really persistent. There’s another good trait for your list of abilities!
All joking aside, sometimes nothing seems to help lift the fog surrounding you. Your nights get longer, or disappear all together, to be replaced by naps frequently throughout the day. You may feel sick and achy with no physical cause. You may become paranoid, or anxious in social situations.
If you suffer with depression for an extended time, or if you start thinking about hurting yourself or someone else, you owe yourself a call to a therapist.
Clinical Depression
Women suffer more from depression than men, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. I know men who think this is true because men don’t “give in” to their emotions. Hogwash. Many depressed people force themselves through each day, but the feelings of sadness will not dissipate.
Think of this like acne. If you had a pimple here and a pimple there every once in awhile, you could use concealer. Yes. Even if you were a guy. If, on the other hand, you had horrendous acne on every inch of your face all the time, you should see a doctor.
The mention of a doctor offers depressed people a perfect excuse for not getting treatment. “I can’t afford it.” They say, citing costs of $150 an hour and no insurance. Most cities have clinics that charge for services on a sliding scale. Call the local health department and ask. Perfect baby step. You succeed at that, you can succeed at calling the resources, and making appointments. If you can do that, you can show up, and take part in therapy or find a medicine to help balance your hormones. If you can do all of that, you will know that you can care for yourself, and one day you’ll not only be better … you’ll be self-confident.
Alternatives to Medicine
The reluctance to put chemicals into your body is understandable, and there are herbal supplements that may help just as well. SAM-e and St. John’s Wart, when purchased from quality distributors, have both shown a marked improvement in depression. The problem is that no one but a doctor can tell you if depression is all you have. People with underlying disorders, such as manic-depression, can increase their symptoms by medicating themselves on their own.
For any person, this is something that relies on taking on step at a time. People with depression can improve and enjoy their lives just like any other. Starting small, and following through, using whatever methods you need to, you will become a happier, healthier you.
Life Coaching Online
June 13th, 2006
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